They have their high paying jobs and need nothing more. I wonder if I have to message them through some dating app in order to get them to talk? Or will it be the same story there? My guess is women in NYC are simply not interested in getting laid.
I've been here four years and that's never happened to me.
I moved here from Chicago where women will make eye contact and sometimes initiate conversations with you. Women in NYC seem to avoid eye contact like the plague.